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Happy Chinese New Year and February at School

A recap of the last few days… Wednesday afternoon after school, there was a note in Grayson’s notebook from his teacher that he had been very quiet and still all day, rubbed his eyes a lot, and ate very little.  I noticed when we got home from school that afternoon, that he was quiet also, the sun was bothering him outside, he didn’t want to eat much of his supper, he wasn’t all that happy, couldn’t really get satisfied… it was just not a great day for him, a sensory-overloaded day.  He said “bed” during supper, so I knew he was tired.  I stepped things up a notch so that I could get him to bed a good bit earlier, hoping that he could get a good night of sleep, and hopefully feel better the next day.

Thursday came along and we were having a good morning, until we headed out the door for school.  It was raining, and he doesn’t like walking in the rain, so I carried him down the steps to put him in the car.  I slipped on the wet steps and down we went to the bottom.  I never let go of him, so luckily he wasn’t hurt.  My lower back/right hip/rear end area is bruised and all sorts of colors.  It looks and feels not-so-good, but I am and will be fine.  Of course, right when it happened, we both cried a little, until Joe saw us at the bottom of the steps almost on the ground and came and helped us get up.  He helped us get in the car, we dried our tears, said our good-byes and love-yous, and we were on our way.  Poor Grayson was teary-eyed the entire way to school. I know it was only a fall, but the whole ordeal bothered him so bad, and he was shocked and worried that Mama got a boo-boo.  Every time that we came to a stop sign I would turn around and ask him if he was okay and he would start to cry.  It was the most pitiful thing, but so sweet at the same time.  I could tell that he was so worried about me just by the look on his face and the tears in his eyes.  His precious little soul has the biggest, sweetest heart.  We got to the bus stop and I got him out of his carseat and he gave me the biggest hug and kiss.  I told him that I was okay and he said, “Okay Mama.”

Last night when Joe was looking at my bruises, Grayson got worried again and was kissing my boo-boo.  And, bless his heart… this morning on the way out the door he really didn’t want to go down the steps to the car.  At first he wouldn’t even get close to the steps.  He just stood on the porch and said,
“Noooo, Mama.”  I kept reassuring him that it was fine, that the steps weren’t slippery today, and that he nor Mama would fall again.  Finally, as I stood at the bottom of the steps on the grass, with my arms reaching up to him on the porch, he came down the first step and leaned into my arms so that I could pick him up.  He just didn’t want me or him, either one, to be on the steps and risk falling again.  Bless him.

Today, Grayson came home from school with a fortune cookie in his backpack.  Chinese New Year is this coming Sunday, so they celebrated today in his class with Chinese food and activities. I’m sure they had a good time and lots of fun celebrating.  I wonder if he tried any of the Chinese food (he is a very picky eater)… I would’ve loved to have been a fly on the wall in his classroom today!

February is going to be a busy month for him at school.  Here is a little of what they are doing this month…

Learning about money and Presidents as they celebrate President’s Day.
Valentine’s learning activities, Valentine’s party, and dance.
Read Across America activities.
Dr. Seuss learning and reading activities.
Reading and math theme this month:  Our Five Senses.
Color of the month:  Pink.
Number of the month:  7.
Letters:  Q, R, and S.
Additional reading activities:  Things That Go Together.
Motor skill activities:  Scooter boards and throwing/catching activities.
Science activities:  Dental health, healthy eating, and reptiles.
Social Studies activities:  Presidents, money, Valentines, Chinese New Year, and Dr. Seuss.
Rhymes:  Wakeup, Groundhog; Little Miss Muffet; and One, Two, Buckle My Shoe.
Books:  If You Give a Pig a Pancake; 5 Little Monkeys; The Flying School Bus; and Secret Valentine.
Art projects:  Sponge paint Valentines, coin rubbings, Valentine fish, and Presidents Day art project.
Sight words:  pink, seven, my.
Food fun: PB and J sandwiches, pancakes, fruit and vegetable tasting.
Sensory Room.
Sing-A-Long activities.
Greenhouse activities.
A visit from The Cat in the Hat!

Goodness, I do not know how they get all of that done!  Plus, his one-on-one speech and occupational therapy while he is at school is scheduled in there too.  They stay busy at school, that’s for sure.  It’s just wonderful to me that they have such a structured curriculum that they follow.  I know that it is all so so good for him.  I know that he has fun and is learning a lot.  We are so very thankful for his school.  We are confident that Grayson is right where he needs to be.

Hope your February is going good so far.  We are glad that today is Friday, and we’re looking forward to a nice, boo-boo free weekend.  Happy Chinese New Year!

100 Days of School

Grayson’s class at school just recently celebrated 100 days of school.  On the wall in their hallway they have counted down to 100 since the first day of school, and they decorated the hallway with a caterpillar that had 100 body parts crawling all over the wall.  They have been working on counting different items in groups of 1′s, 5′s, 10′s, and 20′s until they got to 100.

On the 100th day of school, each student sent in a food item that had at least 100 pieces, and with it they made a large bowl of trail mix for their 100 day celebration.   Grayson took a big bag of reese’s pieces, because he LOVES peanut butter.  They snacked on the trail mix throughout the day, and counted the pieces to 100 in groups of 1′s, 5′s, and 10′s.  For lunch, they made a pizza that had 100 pepperoni slices counted out.  They also made a tall tower stack of 100 can goods.  Everyone sent in 2-3 can good items so that they could reach 100 cans to stack.

I love all of their creative learning projects that they do at school.  His teachers really help him and spend that extra bit of one-on-one time that is so necessary in helping him and the other children in his class learn.  We are sooo pleased with Grayson’s school and everything that they are doing there to help him.

You know, a year ago Grayson was only saying a few words.  His vocabulary has been growing more and more, and his communication with us has improved so much.  We are climbing the ladder over here, and we couldn’t be more proud of how far our sweet little boy has come, and the progress we know he will continue to make.  This life we live is a big ride.  It’s one that passes by every day with different experiences, challenges, and milestones. We are thankful for every single bit of it.  Love, support, believe, and hope.

“Different, not less.”  - Temple Grandin

honey - February 8, 2013 - 5:21 pm

WE LOVE GRAYSON’S SCHOOL!!!! It has been a dream come true….so happy with his progress and I look forward to each day for him! And to think we looked and looked for such a place and thought it did not exist…
So proud you persevered and did not give up in that search!

A LOOK INSIDE HIS DAY.

just a little peek into grayson’s day yesterday. have a wonderful weekend! xo.

chuck - November 17, 2012 - 11:51 am

Amen! God gave you a special young man!

Love you guys!

allie - November 17, 2012 - 2:09 pm

How precious! Thanks for sharing this video….he is soooo smart! Love him! xoxox

honey - November 17, 2012 - 5:03 pm

I love seeing how much Grayson is learning and growing! He is so precious to me!
Thank you for making this adorable video to share! love y’all lots!

Ashley Glover - November 27, 2012 - 7:48 am

Lauren, this video is just beautiful! It truly shows what a handsome, smart boy you two have been blessed with. Praying always for Grayson to have patience and for you two as well as you learn how to best-parent your special little boy. God knew what he was doing when he blessed you with Grayson.

YOU’RE A FIREWORK.

i saw this today and wanted to share it here.  regardless if you have a child with an autism spectrum disorder  or not, please take a minute and watch this video.  everybody deserves a chance. everybody has potential…  they’ve just got to be given the opportunity.  autism needs our help, our voices, and our fight.  keep fighting the good fight.  and keep having hope.  XO.

Do you ever feel like a plastic bag,
Drifting through the wind
Wanting to start again?
Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards,
One blow from caving in?

Do you ever feel already buried deep?
6 feet under screams but no one seems to hear a thing
Do you know that there’s still a chance for you
‘Cause there’s a spark in you

You just gotta ignite the light, and let it shine
Just own the night like the 4th of July

‘Cause baby you’re a firework
Come on, show ‘em what you’re worth
Make ‘em go “Oh, oh, oh”
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby, you’re a firework
Come on, let your colours burst
Make ‘em go “Oh, oh, oh”
You’re gonna leave ‘em all in “awe, awe, awe”

You don’t have to feel like a wasted space
You’re original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow

Maybe your reason why all the doors are closed
So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road
Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow
And when it’s time, you’ll know

You just gotta ignite the light, and let it shine
Just own the night like the 4th of July

‘Cause baby you’re a firework
Come on, show ‘em what you’re worth
Make ‘em go “Oh, oh, oh”
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby, you’re a firework
Come on, let your colours burst
Make ‘em go “Oh, Oh, Oh”
You’re gonna leave ‘em all in “awe, awe, awe”

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It’s always been inside of you, you, you
And now it’s time to let it through-ough-ough

‘Cause baby you’re a firework
Come on, show ‘em what you’re worth
Make ‘em go “Oh, Oh, Oh”
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby, you’re a firework
Come on, let your colours burst
Make ‘em go “Oh, Oh, Oh”
You’re gonna leave ‘em all in “awe, awe, awe”

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon

Allie - October 20, 2012 - 8:28 am

I love it!!! That’s a really good song too! Love y’all!

Cindy - October 21, 2012 - 10:29 am

Thanks for the clip. That was unbelievable. I hope your little boy continues to do great things. I loved the post about him riding the school bus. Such a big step to take by himself.

Elaine - October 21, 2012 - 9:34 pm

Beautiful Video!!! Had to share on facebook.Fall is also one of my favorite times of year and you remind me to slow down and really see God’s beautiful creations.Your pictures are so special, and I just love hearing about your special family.!!!